| SEPTEMBER
2004 :: ON CAMPUS
The
Freshman Adventures
College Mythology
and the Lessons
You Can Learn From It
By Caitlin J. Noris
Special to The Wall Street Journal Classroom Edition
Freshman year
of college sometimes sounds vaguely like a mythological odyssey,
full of three-headed professors, fire-breathing roommates, and tuition
prices that seem to soar close to the sun.
Upperclassmen
spin tales of Herculean academic burdens, Olympic-size social hurdles
and Dionysian parties at the Theta Xi house. Graduates who make
it through the quest complain of being cursed to carry student debt
for all eternity. "Beware, future freshmen," they say
forbiddingly. "The first year is an obstacle course."
The stories
get pretty wild. In truth, college is challenging, but it isn't
horrifying. Although college tests your sense of self and your resolve
to succeed, those worrisome tales of freshman year are mostly exaggerations
(well, the rising tuition part is true).
I should know.
In 2002, I began my freshman year at the University of Pittsburgh,
hundreds of miles from my hometown of Miami, my family and everything
I had grown familiar to. As I occasionally battled it out with teachers,
roommates and Old Man Winter, I learned that behind every college
myth is a lesson.
MYTH
1: It's entirely up to you whether to attend class and complete
your assignments.
Yes, you can
choose to skip class if you don't want to go. You don't even have
to do your homework. But it's very easy to fall behind in college,
and there are serious consequences, like academic probation.
"You're
there on your own, and if you don't go to class, it's on you,"
warns Joe Forliano, who goofed around freshman year at West Virginia
University until he realized his grades were suffering. "You
have to go to class, and don't party too much. Just try to be responsible."
View college
as a huge financial investment and a personal obligation; if your
motivation wanes, you could lose the opportunities you've earned
so far. College is an amazing journey, but partying and hanging
out can only be half of the experience. Textbooks are more than
just expensive doorstops.
MYTH
2: You should already have a good idea what your major will be.
It's perfectly
acceptable to be undecided when it comes to your major! Dabble in
a few courses that sound interesting, and don't worry-nearly everyone
switches majors. (I'm on my fourth!)
Another common
misconception is that your major will be your career and is therefore
your future. While your major does have some bearing on future career
options, what you do outside the classroom can be just as important.
In fact, diversifying your resume will help you after college in
countless ways.
"I had
to head toward a career that I would enjoy and also be able to make
a living with," says Matt Gruber, a business major at the University
of Miami who joined the jazz choir. "Music has always been
a passion for me, though not necessarily a job or an obligation.
[Jazz choir] has taught me how to get along with different types
of people-a skill I'll use in the business world."
MYTH
3: Freshman courses are just meaningless prerequisites, and they're
so large that it's easy to disappear into anonymity.
Most of the
classes you will be taking freshman year serve to fulfill general-education
requirements, but they aren't meaningless. The grades count, and
they can affect entry into graduate schools, internship programs
or scholarship competitions; moreover, entry-level courses provide
core knowledge for more intensive classes you'll be taking later.
Many teachers
don't require attendance, so yes, it's easy to slip in and out without
being noticed. But you'll do better and learn more if you attend
all the classes. It's also important to acquaint yourself with professors
in case you need extra support. Teacher's assistants often do the
actual grading of papers and tests, so it's helpful to get to know
them, too.
MYTH
4: Dorm life is worthy of a horror movie.
This is the
biggest, scariest college myth. In truth, most roommates are normal
people who are just as apprehensive about sharing their space with
someone as you are. Even if you grow closer to people down the hall
than with the person you share a room with, the key to a peaceful
dorm room is simple: you don't have to be great friends, but at
least be a good roommate.
"Qualities
such as compromise, communication, and mutual respect ensure you're
going to get along with whomever you live with," says Rebecca
Afman, who has successfully lived with her high-school buddies for
almost three years.
While the prospect
of dorm life can be unsettling, many students form their tightest
friendships over studying woes and smelly cafeteria food-after all,
you're all in the same boat.
MYTH
5: College is about getting a degree.
College is about
homework. And tests. And writing lots of essays. While the end goal
may be a degree, college is mostly about figuring out who you are.
Going to college means having the opportunity to direct your future,
make lifelong friends, become independent and figure out how to
do laundry on your own.
While four (or
five) years of college may seem like a long time, the semesters
will quickly slip by, and it's important to be prepared. So for
the next year, consider me the Hermes to your Zeus. I'll be your
messenger and provide you with more advice from students across
the country.
Get ready, future
freshmen! Your odyssey begins now.
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